5 Easy Family Photo Poses

Sean Lewis

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Great family photographers understand the impact of posing on family portraits. They masterfully use body language and cues to elicit emotive expressions to capture their clients’ charisma, presence, and warmth. If you struggle at all with establishing relationships with your clients and capturing the magical moments your clients want, don’t miss these 5 easy family portrait poses.

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Example of a fun family photo pose at the beach

The following article focuses on posing for family photography.  For a higher level overview of family photography, see our family photography tips. Also, in separate article, we discuss the best photo editing software for editing your photos, including options like Portrait Pro, Skylum, PhotoDiva, Lightroom, and Photoshop.

Before Your Clients Strike a Pose

While most photographers reach for the camera to start a session, we suggest putting the camera down. Here’s why: Directing is 10 times easier and more personable when you’re not hidden behind a camera. Take this opportunity to connect with your clients and show that they are your complete focus. We start every portrait session by running our clients through the Foundation Posing Framework.

Classic Family Photo Poses

Begin with the classic pose and have your subjects face the camera in order to get them comfortable for the session. The classic pose is one of the easiest family portrait poses for the following reasons:

  1. Simple Pose – Your clients have likely posed for photos using some variation of this pose.
  2. Quick Pose – Because it is a simple and familiar pose, getting in and out of this pose requires little time.
  3. Safe (albeit Boring) Pose – While not very creative, it’s the traditional, must-have shot.
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Example of a “Classic” family photo pose

Transition your clients into a V-Up pose and frame them within the scene by creating equal visual weight throughout. In all of our family portrait poses, we want to show connection and familiarity with touch points; the more touch points we create, the more intimate a pose becomes.

This photo is often the one they use for holiday cards or for their wall art, so make sure you’re happy with the results from this pose before moving on!

Affectionate Family Photo Poses

Is there such a thing as too much space between family members? Of course! In order to create more of a connection (literally) between family members, direct them to hug into the middle. Doing so not only creates more intimacy but also ensures we have a focal point in our images.  This is a perfect family portrait pose for a family hugging onto their child, grandparent, or other person of focus.

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Example of an Affectionate Family Photo Pose

In family portrait sessions, we want to highlight connection while also keeping the photos as authentic as possible. Utilize multiple touch points and wait for natural reactions. Keep an eye out for distractions like natural pointers and negative or tight framing.

Action Family Photo Poses

Sessions with children typically include a unique set of challenges, most of which leave the photographer working on borrowed time. In these instances, we need to move very quickly, but always remember the family is looking to you for direction, charisma, and warmth – no pressure right?

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Example of a fun action pose for the family

Incorporate action to engage the entire family and then wait for the right moment to capture natural reactions. We like to refer to this as assisted photojournalism – watch this webinar to see what it’s all about!

Seamlessly transition from the classic pose to something more candid by directing the family to run, jump, or even compete in a posing contest. These less formal poses will help you capture more authentic looking images and, because they’re fun to do, they can help delay any meltdowns. Also, if your clients are actually having fun, there’s a good chance that will be reflected in the imagery you create!

Editorial Family Portrait Poses

We typically get requests for editorial family photos during weddings rather than family portrait sessions. When shooting in an editorial style during a wedding, it’s important to communicate that even though these shots are complex, time-consuming and risky, they often stand out (in a good way) as the most memorable photos.

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Example of an Editorial Family Photo Pose

Don’t be intimidated by group editorial posing. It takes practice, research and time to fine-tune due to the nuances and focus needed for every subject in the image. By asking the family to smile with just the lips, for example, we can capture a serious but soft gaze.

Be sure to understand your client’s vision before attempting editorial family formals.  This style of photography is a departure from traditional family photos and should only be used when you know that the clients wants it.

Family Photo Poses with Tight Crops

As photographers, we’re aware of the importance of being in the right place at the right time. However, with a bit of directing, we can take a more active role and convincingly recreate candid moments.

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Example of a candid, photojournalistic family pose

In large family portraits, space changes the presence in the photo and creates a mood and sense of symmetry, even with an odd number of people. Reducing the amount of space in the frame has the same effect. To make a moment more intimate, we suggest reframing for a tight crop. By limiting distractions, the focus is on emotion and body language. To reinforce familial relationships, focus on hand placement to establish a connection.

6 Common Mistakes Made when Posing Families

  1. Shooting by a tree.  The best spot in a location isn’t always by the base of a tree.  The biggest problem with shooting by a tree is that unless you are capturing the entire tree when you shoot – which will then make your subjects small, you might crop tight and all you see are family members and the base of a tree trunk.  Find a location without a tree stump, if you need shade, use the tree shade, minus the trunk.
  2. Putting male family members in an awkward pose.  Men don’t sit cross-legged.  In fact, no adult really has since grade school unless they are doing yoga.  A leg bent with a leg crossed under is fine – but avoid the soles of shoes.  Men should always be embracing the woman.
  3. Not putting the parents or grandparents in the middle.  If it’s a huge family portrait, your eye needs to be drawn to the main subject(s).  Is it the parents, or  grandparents?  Depending on the set up, you should make it obvious where the main subjects are – the parents can still be the side, but don’t shuffle them so they get lost in the mix, it’s typically the middle.  If it’s a daughter, mother, grandmother shoot, the oldest women are always in the middle, they are the most important subjects, never put them on the edge.
  4. Not coupling properly.  Stagger family members if you must, but keep them clumped so it is obvious who is single, who is a family, and who are siblings. Pay attention to avoid coupling siblings in a sense that make them look like they are a couple.  Make sure couples touch, and single siblings if there are two, flock both sides of the parents and if there are more than two, they angle away from each other to show independence.  I like having the taller members of the family on the outside if possible.
  5. Forgetting to capture them in a natural state. Even if you are more of a traditional portrait photographer, don’t forget the moments when a family looks at a child or laughs at a child’s reaction.  Sometimes you’ll get some great shots when they aren’t looking but enjoying the moment or interacting with one another, so don’t stop photographing them!
  6. Expecting young children to pose.  You can’t have the entire family stand if the little kids are too short, the parents either have to hold them, or sit and the kids are on the parent’s lap. 

Conclusion

I hope you enjoyed this quick overview of 5 easy family photo poses. Group posing can be a tricky task for photographers who lack the experience, confidence, or knowledge to guide and communicate with their clients to get the perfect shot.  For some, especially those who consider themselves to be introverts, it’s the most challenging aspect of portrait photography.

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