Photographer Honors Sister’s Memories In Recreated Wedding Portraits

Featured Projects December 17th 2013 3:00 PM 15 Comments

The importance of photography and the memories that a single photograph can hold is never greater than after the loss of a loved one. When we experience the tragic loss of a loved one, we do everything we can to hold on to those memories we have of them. Nothing helps us keep those memories alive better than a photograph. If you have ever experienced the roller coaster of emotions that follow the loss of a loved one, the memories that photographs hold can be both heart wrenching and comforting at the same time. They can be a reminder of not only great memories, but moments we will never share with that person again. Recreating those memories with new photos is a great way to not only help with the healing process, but a great dedication to the one we lost.

Photo by Cass Imaging

After the sudden loss of my mother on New Years Day of 2012, I spent days ripping through boxes and boxes of photographs that she had stashed away. My mother was a wedding photographer in her younger years, and loved photography, so there was a lot to go through. The photos that I found during the days following her death not only brought back memories that may have been lost otherwise, but they helped in the grieving process. My Mom loved everything about photography and it was something special the two of us shared together. Her heart stopped in her sleep while we were on vacation celebrating New Years Eve, she was 54 years old. After going through her wedding album, my sister and I teamed up and dedicated a photo shoot to her. As a dedication to her, my sister put her wedding dress back on and we recreated some of the poses my mother did on her wedding day. We also shot the photos in one of her favorite places, the blueberry fields of Hammonton, NJ.

After the loss of her sister in 2011, wedding photographer Melanie Pace did something similar. In 2011, 31-year-old Ali Nunery passed away from a rare form of lung cancer, leaving behind her husband Ben and their 1-year-old daughter Olivia. With Olivia turning 3, and Ben wanting to give her a bigger yard to play in and better school district, he decided it was time to move into a new home. Leaving wouldn’t be easy, especially since the house holds so many unforgettable memories, so Ben wanted to do something creative before they left to start life in their new home.

Photo by Loft3 Photography

Melanie had photographed Ben and Ali’s wedding 4 and a half years ago, and she had photographed them together in their new home together while it was still empty on their wedding day. As a farewell and dedication to Ali, Ben asked that Melanie take pictures of him and Olivia in their empty house just like she did on his wedding day. Along with a lot of other photos to celebrate Olivia’s 3rd birthday, one of their goals for this shoot was to mimic a few of the wedding day shots using Olivia in place of her mother.

Photo by Loft3 Photography

Leaving the house behind was extremely tough for everyone, but it was time. As Melanie describes it,

It was the place where you can literally feel my sister’s presence the second you step in the door. Heck, she poured herself into making that place her home and every inch of it was perfection.

Photo by Loft3 Photography

The photos were extremely tough for everyone to take, but after Ben handed over the keys and drove away from the house that had held all those memories, he realized how special they would be. When I came across Melanie’s blog post with the photos, The Nunerys, it immediately reminded me of the shoot that I had done with my sister after our Mom had passed. Photographs are a great tool for keeping memories alive when we lose a loved one. They can help us heal, comfort us when we are hurting, and help us move on with our new lives.

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J. Cassario

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Jay Cassario is a photographer from South Jersey, and owner of the wedding, engagement, and portrait photography studio Cass Imaging. His true passion is his portrait work, but his love for landscape and star photography has earned him publications by National Geographic.

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15 Comments

  1. Michelle Ford

    jay! i told you this already made me cry a river and now i have to go run for a fresh box of tissues.

  2. Kishore Sawh

    Mothers. There simply is no substitute. I can safely attribute my best qualities to my family and mostly her. My faults are, entirely my own doing. Nice touch Jay. I can’t deal well with this sort of thing.

  3. Hanssie

    Beautifully done. Thanks for sharing your story.

  4. Jackie

    Just so beautiful! Thank you for sharing, Jay!

  5. J. Cassario

    Thanks for reading everyone! This is a subject that is all too familiar to me, and I was honored to share Melanie’s story and photos.

  6. Michelle Acker Perez

    Jay, this was just beautiful! Thank you for sharing!

  7. Christopher

    nice story telling jay… appreciate you sharing this with us.

  8. Carrie

    Hey cuz, this was a great article and some beautiful pictures to share. Keep up the beautiful work!

  9. Chesea
    Chesea

    Beautiful. What a lovely thing to do. I hope it helps their hearts in healing.

  10. Lisa

    beautiful work…i am in tears right now.

  11. Gonzalo

    Touching and beautiful, good job J!

  12. Stefanie Wick

    So beautiful…. I don’t have words to explain how I feel… Tears…Your mom had an infectious smile… Lindsay has that same beautiful smile…She & you will have beautiful memories to share with your children..

  13. Matt M

    Awesome heartfelt article !!

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